Italian Wedding Customs

There is just something so romantic about Italy. It is theAs with any wedding, la sposa (the bride) is the center
wine, the food, the ambience, and above all, theof the day. The wedding gown is very important to
warmth and passion of the Italians. Having a destinationItalian brides, and they have a great variety from which
wedding in Italy would be truly incredible. But even ifto choose. Traditional long sleeve gowns are still seen
you cannot transport your wedding to the Tuscanfor Nuptial Masses, but so are all manner of gowns
countryside, you can bring some of the exuberant spiritfrom modern to fanciful. Simplicity is valued by some
of an Italian wedding home.brides, but many love the fine laces and
Weddings are a very big deal in Italy. They are aboutembellishments that are offered by designers. Since
more than just the marriage of one man and oneItalian lace is some of the finest in the world, it would
woman; weddings are also the union of two familiesbe perfect for an Italian wedding gown. Veils are
and all of their friends. This is a cause for greatusually worn, as they were once thought to protect
celebration! Italian weddings often start with a Nuptialthe bride from evil spirits. Italian women love jewelry,
Mass in the morning, followed by feasting, drinking, andbut there is a superstition that says a bride should not
dancing that can last well into the next day. (Tip: if youwear any gold on her wedding day until the groom
are having a full Catholic Nuptial Mass, it should begives her the wedding band. To play it safe, choose
indicated on your invitations.)custom bridal jewelry handcrafted with sterling silver.
Speaking of feasting, food is of paramount importanceSparkling Swarovski crystals and lustrous pearls can
for any Italian special occasion. Food has strongbe intertwined with the sterling silver to create fabulous
associations with family and togetherness in Italy, so ofcustom bridal jewelry that is both unique and
course at a wedding reception, everyone will want toaffordable.
mange. The wedding dinner often consists of up toThe Italians have many other delightful customs that
fourteen courses, followed by cake with espresso andyou can include in your wedding. One fun tradition is for
coffee (to aid in dancing until dawn, no doubt). Whetherthe couple to shatter a vase or glass at the end of the
your wedding is in the United States or in Italy, treatevening. It is said that for every shard of glass, the
your guests to a proper Italian wedding feast. If yournewlyweds will have a year of happiness. The
wedding is in America, a wonderful way to honor yourRomans would break a loaf of wheat bread over the
Italian ancestry would be to serve the dishes that arebride and groom for fertility. For good luck, the guests
the specialty of the region from which your family hails.ate the crumbs. Another good luck charm used by
Skip generic Italian-American dishes in favor of trueItalians is a piece of iron that the groom carries in his
authentic Italian cuisine.pocket to drive away jealous evil spirits.
The Italians have some very charming pre-weddingFor couples who have Italian heritage, highlighting the
traditions that any American bride would love. It iswedding customs of Italy is a very special way to
customary for a young man to serenade his belovedhonor your relatives while personalizing your event.
with music before proposing marriage (if he is toneEven if you do not have a single drop of Italian blood, it
deaf, he can bring along friends to help out). Howwould be fun to include some of the joyous spirit of
romantic is that? Also incredibly romantic is the reasonthe Italians in your wedding festivities. And don't forget
that Italians give diamond engagement rings: theyto raise a glass to the favorite Italian wedding toast,
believe that diamonds are created by the flames of"Per cent'anni!" (for a hundred years).
love. Ladies, are you swooning yet?